How Our Siblings Shape Us
For many of us, our relationship with a sibling will be the longest we'll ever have. We'll talk about our sibling relationships and how they shape who we are.Listen 50:14
The longest relationship most of us will have is with a sibling – someone who, unlike a friend or partner, we didn’t choose to bring into our lives. Ninety percent of people grow up with a sister or brother watching them struggle through awkward adolescence into adulthood, sharing a home, parents and family resources. It’s no wonder these relationships can be so close and supportive but often frustrating, competitive and contentious.
Today we explore all sides of our sibling relationships and how they shape who we are, from children to adults. We’ll talk about why people from the same family can be so different, ways to heal old resentments and jealousies, and how to stay close to our siblings – if we want to – when life pulls us apart.
KARL PILLEMER, Professor of Human Development at Cornell University and Professor of Gerontology in Medicine at the Weill Cornell Medical College. He’s the author of the book, Fault Lines: Fractured Families and How to Mend Them.
LAURIE KRAMER, Professor of applied psychology at Northeastern University and a clinical psychologist.
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