When did you first think about writing a book? Did you always know what you wanted to include in the story?
Years ago, I had written about being a patient and surgeon, my experience being a patient. As surgeons, we try to be empathetic and compassionate and explain things, but when you’re a patient, it’s totally, totally different. And so, I had started just writing about that a lot. And I’m someone who journals, so I used to write a lot of those things down.
I had probably written about four chapters, and I sent it to [a publisher] and she was like, “This is amazing.” And we talked about what the book would be about.
I started talking about growing up in Philly, doing mission work in Haiti, about how when Will Smith decided he was going to bungee jump out of a helicopter over the Grand Canyon for his 50th birthday how I was responsible for building this [medical] triage in the middle of a desert. I had to go out, survey the area, I had to see what the terrain was like, how close we were to water, how close we were to hospitals, what things we would have to bring.
So, you have these two different environments — one where everything I needed as long as I could justify it, I had, and another where all the equipment we had, we brought from America to this developed nation [Haiti], and still we were able to take care of everyone. Those experiences, at the time I didn’t realize, were preparing me for COVID.
It was things like that that I said, “This would kind of shape up to be a nice kind of story.”
And then all the adversity in becoming a doctor, and then becoming a surgeon, and then becoming a pediatric surgeon, which there is even a smaller number of, and even a smaller, smaller number of women pediatric surgeons, and another smaller, smaller number of Black women pediatric surgeons. I needed to tell that story.
So often, when people experience stuff, they never talk about it. When people talk about microaggression and unconscious or conscious bias, it’s all these words, but it’s not a real story or narrative to go with it, so I said, “Ok, I’m going to tell you what happened to me.”
Some of the things that happened in my life, it’s just unbelievable. And people get away with it every day. That’s why the attrition rates tend to be so high, especially for Black folks in medicine. It’s why the percentage of Black physicians in the United States is still at 5% or lower because of some of these things. Becoming a doctor and a surgeon is challenging enough, so then to add that on top of it is just, it’s a lot. And I wanted to talk about that and say, “But you can get through it. Don’t give up.”
Your book, ‘Take Care of Them Like My Own: Faith, Fortitude and a Surgeon’s Fight for Health Justice,’ how important was choosing this title and the meaning behind it?
I wanted the title itself, even if you never read the book, to send a message. So, “Take Care of Them Like My Own,” to me, is how we get to equitable care for everyone. How you’re taking care of your client, how you’re taking care of your colleague, how you’re taking care of someone who works for you or with you, is it the way you would want your daughter to be treated or your husband or your wife, someone you care about, someone in your family?
I think of some of the stories of how I know young women have been treated in emergency departments, and like, “Would you have done that if it were your daughter?” I know that they wouldn’t have done it.
And then the faith [part], everything in my life, I believe, my steps have been ordered by God. My life has been spared more than once. Times where something untoward should have happened to me, didn’t, and every time I needed something to happen a certain way, there’s been a solution. I don’t believe things happen by accident or coincidence. For me, it’s faith.
And then the fortitude, that’s the Philly. The fortitude is the Philly. That’s the stick-to-it-ness, the no nonsense, that’s Philly all day.
“Take Care of Them Like My Own: Faith, Fortitude and a Surgeon’s Fight for Health Justice” is on store shelves at major retailers, local book stores and online starting Aug. 6. A book launch event with Dr. Ala Stanford will be held Tuesday, Aug. 6 at the Kimmel Center in Philadelphia. Tickets are available at ensembleartsphilly.org.